Mr. Wrongs

let's talk heart to heart. This is sensitive. This is hard. But it's natural. Let's talk crush.

It's fatal to talk through a girl's heart and yes, revealing the fact that we all had our crushes [notice the plural here] is also lethal. xmalu okay

The thing is, everyone knew it. Everyone felt it but just keep it to themselves so frankly speaking, it's not reallyy a secret anymore. One could never be saint enough to NOT have crush and deter spontaneous feeling by any means. right? What matters is how do we deal with it?

This is the right time to use "ignorance is a bliss"

just ignore it and it will pass. Trust me. It IS hard. especially when you see them like A LOT. It helps to think that they will never notice you, and your 'dream' relationship will never work out whatsoever. Kick some sense into your brain, talk your heart out of it. IT WILL NEVER WORK OUT.

okay, that is if they did not notice you. So what about if they work with you, talk to you or acknowledge you? hey soul sister, your minds are playing tricks with you. They never look at you the way you look at them. Make some barriers and stay in-check. Put your glasses on. See them as married or engaged to be married. Obviously you would stay away from married guys right? or not?? ;p

Lastly, keep distance. It is safer for your heart. The heart gives you conscience but it can also gives you headache by tricking you into false feeling. worry not, The brain will do the math. Make way for rational thinking and insyaAllah you'll be crush-free in no time!

personal note; this thing called love is getting ridiculously insane in this modern age. How can two different people with so different personality share the same feeling. It's 1;1000.. winning a lottery is more likely to succeed. Love is a complete miracle then. Back in the old days, they just got married without knowing who and who.. mom and dad are happily married for 22 years now. They didn't wait for Mr or Miss right. Just trust God. He knew best. No need to bleed your heart out or dry your tear for the guy who you just notice a while ago and start getting smitten by only his smile ;)

p/s: Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoned passion or love; addictive love. Usually, one is inspired with an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone.

Infatuation is a common emotion characterized by unrealistic expectations of blissful passion without positive relationship growth or development. Infatuation is distinguished by a lack of trust, loyalty, commitment, and reciprocity. In the case of infatuation, there is usually an obsessor and an object of desire, who may or may not be attainable. -wikipedia-

it's not l.o.v.e so, cheer up girls!

but this is Love:

And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." [Sûrah Rûm: 21]